In films, when two adversaries confront each other, it's usually dramatic. There has been a build-up of some sort. Audiences are primed to see how each other will react. A need exists for you to enter into dialogue with a particular person and the thought of this makes you feel uncomfortable. Someone else feels the same. A calm and honest discussion will dispel feelings of nervousness and provide the basis for a way forward upon which both of you can feel agreed.