We complain sometimes when we have options, we complain sometimes when we don't. Whatever middle ground exists is determined by how much we do or don't want options! 'Why wouldn't we want options?' I hear you ask. Options are great things but they're opportunities in disguise. When we seize one, we invite change and that's where things get a bit more complex. It is through lack of choice in a certain area that you're now in the strongest position. Trust that.