You've invested effort, put forth a strong argument to defend why you want what you want but it appears someone's choosing not to respond in a way you wish they would. This could be because you're overlooking a grander gesture being made. Someone intends to get your attention in another, much lovelier way. Just be patient for a bit longer. There's something you need to connect with and, once done. It will shed reassuring light on a currently confusing picture.