We're taught from young ages to 'do unto others as we would do unto ourselves'. There are some exceptions to this if certain people have unorthodox ideas about what they would prefer others did to them! What suits us isn't always suitable for someone else but that shouldn't stop us from at least trying, provided our intentions are good. You know how you'd prefer to be treated where a situation regarding you and another is concerned. Be prepared though to have to tailor your approach to be more suitable for them. Imagination and sensitivity will ensure you succeed.